Orgasm equal love

Skip to content. I am a sexually active female, but I can't reach orgasm when having sex with my boyfriend. Can you help me out? I am 28 years old. I've had a problem for years now; well, I had this problem all my life and I was too ashamed to seek help.

In one of my favorite scenes from American Pie , Kevin solicits relationship advice from the impossibly chill and all-knowing love guru, Jessica. He needs help with his girlfriend Vicky, who's pissed because Kevin won't say the "L" word. Jessica gives it to him straight: "You've got to either give her the big 'L' or the big 'O,'" she says. Translated, Jessica's telling Kevin to do one of only two things: either say "I love you" -- or give Vicky a great, toe-curling orgasm. I found out just how perfect Jessica's advice was during my freshman year in college and had my first orgasm with another human being. The boy I'd bedded was instantly my new obsession. Turns out my experience wasn't unusual -- orgasms make women fall in love by rendering them incapable of coherent, rational thought.

By Stephanie Pappas, LiveScience. Contrary to the reassuring catchphrase "size doesn't matter," penis size may matter in bed — but only for some women, and for certain types of orgasms. A new study finds that women who have frequent vaginal orgasms are more likely than other women to say they climax more easily with men with larger penises.

As long as you're making sure your partner is having a toe-curling good time too, then you should feel free to maximize your own pleasure—which is why it can be useful to get creative in the bedroom, either by bringing in some toys or getting your rear end involved. But if you're down to do butt stuff, you might discover the wonders of the prostate orgasm , and it's like no penile orgasm you've ever experienced. Prostate orgasms are difficult to describe and a unique experience for every man, which is we thought it would be helpful to ask a few men—who are no strangers to the experience—to describe the action in their own words. It was like feeling someone lighting a fire in my feet and feeling it slowly spread all the way up my body. Slowly moving through my torso and making me shiver.